The CP Diary & me

The CP Diary is coming up to its second birthday and for me the transition of how it started to where The CP Diary is, for me is phenomenal.

I remember having a conversation with my then web designer who asked me what I was going to do with the site and remember the conversation as if it were yesterday, because he wasn’t sure how or what …

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28 Apr, 2012

Remaining upbeat

As I try to remain upbeat given my current set of circumstances, I can understand why the brain can easily go into a negative state. There is only so much anyone can handle, before everything becomes too much.

The following helps me:

  • Developing my spiritual awareness is something I have continued to do for many years. My beliefs help me to remain focused and positive, even when I’m dealing with stressful situations;
  • I listen to music or read books that encourage me to remain upbeat. I tweet positive quotes and incorporate daily affirmations into my life, so that I continue to think positive;
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26 Apr, 2012

Putting yourself first

As a child, I cared about everyone and everything, regardless of whether others cared about me. I cared about what other people thought about me, so much so that my decisions were influenced by their suggestions, even though their suggestions were never right for me.

My thoughts weren’t my own. I’d speak and say things to please and gave no consideration to my own inner voice. I cared too much about being politically correct. In hindsight, I should have stopped …

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25 Apr, 2012

Our reality

Something inspirational:

“Reality is what we take to be true. What we take to be true is what we believe. What we believe is based upon our perceptions. What we perceive depends upon what we look for. What we look for depends upon what we think. What we think depends upon what we perceive …

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24 Apr, 2012

Thoughts on being happy

As a child, I never thought about whether I was happy or sad. I knew I existed in my life and that my life was just that ‘my life.’ I have changed a lot since those early days.

There is no doubt in my mind that we make our own happiness and that being proactive is an important element, if we are going to bring about that change.

The following other tips may help:

  • Take responsibility for yourself and be okay with your mistakes. Quit blaming others and stop making excuses all the time. Making excuses just gives you more ammunition to deny your responsibilities on any decisions and life choices you have to make;
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23 Apr, 2012

Uneasy feelings

Do you wake up with an uneasy feeling in the pit of your stomach when you’re dealing with so many uncertainties?

All of my uncertainties are beginning to make me feel uneasy. Unfortunately, those feelings are bringing about other feelings, which I am now having to deal with. I still have to fight my corner so …

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22 Apr, 2012

Focus on now

“Something wonderful begins to happen with the simple realisation that life, like an automobile, is driven from the inside out, not the other way around. As you focus more on becoming more peaceful with where you are, rather than focusing on where you would rather be …

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21 Apr, 2012