Have you ever been around someone who is so objectionable, you just feel you want to walk away?
For those of us who often have no choice and are left to pick up the pieces, it’s the hardest job in the world for us to continue to make peace with that person. I have seen first-hand, what happens when someone is so objectionable.
Unfortunately, when people become so objectionable, others will stop trying with them, they’ll stop helping, they’ll walk away and if they don’t walk away, they’ll be the last in the queue when it comes to handing out help.
It’s a shame but it isn’t an excuse for bad behaviour. It also doesn’t give us the right to think that others must accept our behaviour; that in some way others owe us for the hand we’ve been dealt.
For the people who are objectionable, they tend to live in the past as they continue to blame their past for how their lives turn out. If they lived in the present they would have a totally different outlook on how they see and live their lives.
We’re not all fortunate to be born into a cherished life, neither are we all free to make the choices we want to make, but that doesn’t give us the right to be objectionable towards other people.
We’re all born equal in our first moments of life, what happens to us after that usually determines our outlook, but for me, simply being with someone objectionable gives me clarity on my own life on how not to do things.