Changing circumstances

11 Feb

I’ve always had something to deal with, so my circumstances changing again shortly will be nothing new to me. Although the thought that one-day I will lose another parent, I’m not feeling scared; because my father will finally be at peace and that makes me want this all the more for him. Throughout this process I’ve never thought about myself… I’ll be fine and will get by.

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  1. Lisa Cyr 11. Feb, 2013 at 11:23 am #

    Thinking of you. I’ve been there and am there now with my mom. Glad you are doing well with everything.

    • Ilana 11. Feb, 2013 at 11:26 am #

      Thanks Lisa and for your encouragement.

  2. Randy Darling 11. Feb, 2013 at 12:43 pm #

    When my mother was dying all I wanted was for her pain and suffering to end. She had gone through a terrible year.

    It not only affected her but the rest of the family greatly. When she finally did pass, we knew she was at last at peace. It was over and our lives would change in ways no one would imagine.

    I hope your family finally find some closure when he is gone.

    • Ilana 11. Feb, 2013 at 2:30 pm #

      Thanks Randy. I agree.

  3. Randy Michaud 11. Feb, 2013 at 11:13 pm #

    So sorry that you have to go through this, but it does sound like you’re doing what you need to do to keep yourself healthy through all this!

    I think it’s a lot different when you have time to prepare for it and go through the grieving process beforehand.

    Hope you have a better week.

    • Ilana 12. Feb, 2013 at 6:32 am #

      Thanks Randy. You’re absolutely right the process is slightly easier this way.

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