The most common problems in any relationship is being emotionally wounded by those who unintentionally hurt us by their comments that sometimes seem intentional.
Most relationships when complacency sets in can harbour unintentional hurt, such as bringing up issues from the past that aren’t relevant to what’s going on at that time, but we tend to go back to what we know, to what we’ve lived.
Our emotional baggage is usually the reason why we may unintentionally hurt someone. However, if we make ourselves consciously aware of issues in our past, we will give ourselves the opportunity to work through and change how we relate to those we choose to be around.
Changing our attitude, if we are presented with these kind of problems, will always allow us to deal with people and our issues better so that none of this becomes intentional. I don’t believe it ever is. Our unconscious makes it so.