We choose the life we come into and live the life we choose. It probably sounds odd and is a difficult concept for us to understand, but long before we’re a twinkle in our parents’ eyes, we’ve already decided on the life we want to live and with whom we want to live it with.
Along the way, we create our own obstacles and blocks. We will live with a great deal of frustration through those blocks and because of those frustrations, will fail to change anything. As soon as we learn how to deal with our frustrations to overcome those obstacles and blocks, things around us will start to change.
It’s important for us to understand the concept of the life we choose. When we understand, we’re more likely to become pro-active so that we live the life we chose. I came to learn very early on in my own life that I would be faced with many challenges. I also knew I might never be in a position to change my path until my circumstances changed.
I must admit it took me a while to understand why I would choose the life I came into. I tend to use reflection as a tool. When I began to live my life and became aware of things, I would deal with the things I needed to deal with. Life is about purpose. We need to understand what that purpose is and why our lives unfold the way it does.
It’s the blocks and obstacles we encounter along the way that help us experience what we want and need to learn. The more we manage our blocks, the more hurdles we will overcome. Overcoming hurdles help with life experiences and allows us to succeed. We don’t always have to agree with how we get to live our life, but it certainly helps to understand.
When we can understand we’re more likely to adjust better and that helps us take control of our lives.