I never gloss over anything. If I’m struggling I’ll tell you I’m struggling. If I’ve got a problem with someone, I’ll tactfully find a way to say what I feel. I have always believed it’s the best policy.
I see the past as it happens and see the present as it unfolds. We will always be thrown into a false sense of security, when we choose to see people better than they were and circumstances better than they are. We need to see and be able to deal with the truth, how things really are.
Always see things as they are and not how you want them to be, just because you think it’s easier. The sad reality is that these things never stay easy. They will eventually become more difficult to deal with.