It’s always bad to invest our energy and get hooked on the wrong things that make us lose sight and control. The good part is that to regain control over our personal lives, isn’t as hard as we think.
Losing control means we’re powerless to regain control and that usually happens when we leave things too long. We tend to leave things too long, because we tell ourselves the problem will correct itself or we stand on ceremony because we’re too stubborn and won’t back down, as we wait for the other person to do the running.
The irony is that as when we unconsciously continue to follow the same patterns without giving what we do a seconds thought, we can never have control. The faster we consciously respond, the less helpless we will be and the more control we will have.
The longer we wait, the more confidence we lose, the harder things become. The sooner we deal with issues, the quicker those issues will get resolved. Perhaps, we should act instead of accumulating problems, without trying to solve them. For every problem, there is a solution. It’s up to us to try to work the solution out.
Finally, with each problem we face we will come to learn a new skill that helps with confidence that will help us gain back control.