Walk your own path

As human beings we are unique. Even though we can experience similar things, we are still unique. No two people will see the same experiences in the same way. If we did, we’d all be clones of each other.

Unfortunately, expectations are put upon us from an early age, to behave in a certain way, or follow a certain path. It is important …

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28 May, 2012

Spirituality and Me

I never tire of writing about or wanting to learn more about spirituality, particularly because spirituality has brought a certain calm to my life.

Spirituality has given me the power to choose how I see and create my own realities. It has shown me that my life reflects what I put out into the world. When others think the same way, it is like meeting …

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26 May, 2012

Making comparisons

Something inspirational:

“From the very beginning you are being told to compare yourself with others. This is the greatest disease; it is like a cancer that goes on destroying your very soul because each individual is unique, and comparison is not possible. I am just myself and you are just yourself …

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25 May, 2012

The human mind

The mind is a complex and powerful tool. It enables us to think, remember and reason with ourselves and with others, as well as problem solve.

The mind also helps us assess complex thoughts, recall past experiences and turn our ideas into realities; but for it to work effectively, it should be used in conjunction with our intuition if we are …

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24 May, 2012

Accepting criticism

I find it sad that as soon as someone criticises us, we feel we need to retaliate. As a child, I didn’t notice because I was too angry, but criticism is nothing more than another person’s observation of us. If there is an issue there we must deal with it, but first we must recognise it.

The problem we have with criticism, is that what others see is not normally how we see ourselves. Instead, we think of it as a personal slur, but that’s not what it is; it’s a slur on our behaviour, it’s our behaviour …

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23 May, 2012

Pre-order my new book

Many thanks
Ilana x