Generations of behaviour

Family behaviour has a history of repeating itself with future generations. Those behaviour patterns passed through the generations will dictate how we communicate with other family members and how we get to live our lives.

Those behaviour patterns will determine our opinions, our beliefs and our decisions. They will also influence our own behaviour. As a result, we will unconsciously fail to change anything and will continue to …

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30 Mar, 2013

Social class

It’s become standard practice to put barriers up to protect ourselves. That way we don’t have to communicate our thoughts to anyone.

It’s the way we’re made, right? Unfortunately not, it’s what we’ve learned. People don’t always shy away from other people because they feel resentment towards them; they usually shy away because they’re …

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29 Mar, 2013

From the heart

It doesn’t matter how much we talk from the heart, sometimes the people we’re trying to talk to, don’t want to hear what we need to say. It’s only in those moments that we may begin to realise that we’re left with no alternative but to walk away.

Wouldn’t life be great if we had control over other people’s thoughts? Not so that we can control their every move, or even their thinking, just so they can see what we see, understand what we understand …

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27 Mar, 2013

Unconscious Issues

Letting go of someone or something doesn’t mean we’ve failed. It means we’re no longer willing to put up with a situation or issue we’re not happy with.

Unfortunately, when anyone deals with someone with a terminal illness, emotionally it may often flag other issues, in other areas that they may need to address, but don’t always consciously think about it at the …

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26 Mar, 2013

The simple life

Something inspirational:

“To find the universal elements enough; to find the air and the water exhilarating; to be refreshed by a morning walk or an evening saunter… to be thrilled by the stars at night; to be elated over a bird’s nest or a wildflower in spring – these are some of the rewards of the simple life.”


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22 Mar, 2013

Order my new book

Ilana x