Archive | September, 2014

A quote by Confuscius

30 Sep

Something inspirational:

And remember, no matter where you go there you are.


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Another universal thought

29 Sep

We seem to be heading in the right direction, we’re doing the right things but circumstances are still conspiring against us.

My belief is that whilst we’re in contact with others, who don’t conform to the universe, the universe will always conspire to ensure those people seek out and learn from their experiences, even if it …

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The universe conspires

28 Sep

The universe will always conspire to work with us on the things we do and say are right. If we do and say the right things, those things should work out.

When we do things for our own gain because we’re greedy or think we’re entitled, the universe will have its own ideas on whether it thinks we’re greedy or entitled. I’m not sure how many of us …

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An Albert Camus quote

27 Sep

Something inspirational:

“Man is the only creature who refuses to be what he is.”


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Revisiting old issues

26 Sep

We’d be different people than we are today if we’d had the opportunity to do and experience the things others clearly have been lucky enough to experience.

If that clearly isn’t the case, to hold on to romantic notions of imagining how our lives could have been, the whole exercise will become futile and upsetting in the longer term. When I look back on my …

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Everyone’s potential

25 Sep

When we’re dealing with physical problems, desperate to be heard, hurting and ignored for the most part, it’s easy to understand why someone would withdraw and why others would choose to define them as being lazy.

No one is born that way. Our environment and what we have to deal with has its impact and is often the reason why we behave a certain way. It’s a coping mechanism. No one consciously chooses …

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A Dave Walters quote

24 Sep

Something inspirational:

“I’m not saying it’s going to be easy; I’m saying it’s going to be worth it. If it was easy, you would’ve done it by now.”


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Solving problems differently

23 Sep

If a friend or loved one came to you with a problem, you would more than likely find a solution must faster, than if you were facing the same problem yourself.

It’s because other people’s problems seem clearer, right? I’m not convinced, but we do tend to approach and see other people’s problems as a challenge that must apply a different thinking from us …

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The write & burn letter

22 Sep

Not everyone in their lifetime will have the opportunity to speak to their parents about unresolved childhood issues, which affect them in their everyday life and whilst I would always recommend it, I think it important to try to get your message across in a way that’s not only appropriate but will get you the best result.

Unfortunately when parents get so many things wrong, we end up with a list that can make us more vulnerable about our own shortcomings. If you can’t speak to your parents because they’re either …

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Getting an education

21 Sep

Something inspirational:

“If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.”


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