Archive | June, 2015

My fair share of struggles

30 Jun

It’s fair to say that I have had and still continue to have my fair share of struggles. I get to the point where things tick over nicely, but then everything seems wrong, nothing goes right, then my Cerebral Palsy troubles me, how I got to this place bothers me.

There is so much I want and would like to change and so my struggle goes on. The summer months also reinforce some of my Cerebral Palsy issues. I usually stand back so that I am able to rationale …

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Other people’s ignorance

29 Jun

There are those who genuinely want to help, those who want to help but don’t know how to help and those who don’t want to know what it is we’re dealing with and therefore won’t go out of their way to help.

I’m sure we all know someone who fits into the latter description. On our part, it’s the not knowing, living in the dark with little to no understanding of our issue that makes what we feel and …

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Our lessons

28 Jun

If we’re lucky enough to have supporting parents, we will learn many lessons from them, but if like me you didn’t, sometimes the main lesson we learn, is how not to do things.

My fate was sealed the moment I was born, but it would go on to take me many years to understand why. In my mind I was always optimistic. Optimistic but probably rather naïve in my thinking …

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A Will Fetters quote

27 Jun

Something inspirational:

“Our fingerprints don’t fade from the lives we’ve touched.”


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Making a choice

26 Jun

Although I was emotionally stuck as a child, I made a conscious effort to make sure I wasn’t also set in my ways too.

I’ve heard it said that the older we are the more likely we are to be and remain set in our ways, but I believe we get to call the shots. We get to call the shots. We get to make our choice. That when we …

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Looking back at life

25 Jun

It’s only when children become independent and begin to live their own lives that we as parents look back at our own life and either look back at those memories fondly, or come to realise how bad our life has really been.

I have never chosen to live my life through my children, just because I didn’t have the opportunity to have my own positive experiences, my life is my life, but I still can’t seem to help looking back …

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Negative to positive

24 Jun

We can always choose to perceive things differently. You can focus on what’s wrong in your life or you can focus on what’s right. – Marianne Williamson

I love the above quote because it points out exactly how we should choose to see and live our lives. Negative to positive, we can change our perceptions to fit our lives. We can choose to focus our …

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About accomplishments

23 Jun

Something inspirational:

“At the end of the day, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished. It’s about what you’ve done with those accomplishments. It’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It about what you’ve given back.”


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Digestion & immunity

22 Jun

It’s hard to believe that we’re made of 90% bacteria. For every cell in your body, we have 9 cells of bacteria living in and on our body.

Most of the bacteria is living inside our intestinal tract and the health of this organism is critical to the overall health of our bodies. The health of our gut bacteria and the health of our immune …

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Energy & recovery

21 Jun

It’s a fact that someone with Cerebral Palsy uses 3 to 5 times more energy to do the same things as someone without Cerebral Palsy, so it stands to reason that because I have Cerebral Palsy, I will tire more quickly when I over exert myself.

It also stands to reason that the older we get the more tired we will become, so living with Cerebral Palsy, means I will tire 3 to 5 times more as I age, than someone ageing without the condition …

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