If we’re not working on self-development, it’s probably something we need to start doing. Not everyone will work on self-development or know what that is.

Self-development is us taking steps for us to deal with our issues and to learn about ourselves. When continually used, it can help us learn new skills; which makes us more aware: it also helps us improve …

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31 Mar, 2019

Understanding motives

When you learn to look into another person’s soul and you learn more about them, it becomes easier to understand why they would choose to do something. But being able to forgive someone for something they’ve done may not always apply, it depends on the deed.

We must come to understand that what happens to us isn’t personal. When we can understand the reasoning behind another …

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30 Mar, 2019

Looking at the positives

Some of us will see the negatives before we see the positives, others will simply see life negatively and continue to see life negatively.

But it is often difficult for us to see or understand why our lives map out in a certain way, or the purpose of our experiences. Whatever happens, there is no point in looking back and wishing our lives were …

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29 Mar, 2019

Unintentioned decisions

When you look deep into another person’s soul, and you come to understand his or her motives and intentions, it is easy to understand why they took the decision they took.

When I peel back the layers, I can see and understand the reasoning behind what happened to me more clearly. When we can reason, it makes our experiences that little bit easier. It doesn’t take away the …

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27 Mar, 2019

Ignoring issues

I could have ignored my biggest issue, not knowing what my disability was. I could have told myself ignorance is bliss, I’m probably better off not knowing, the truth will only hurt but that’s far from what the truth does.

We all have issues, but we must have control and change our attitude to our reasons for ignoring our issues. Where we’re fearful of change, we must work on our fear, where we have uncertainty we must …

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23 Mar, 2019

Repressed emotions

When I think about my experiences, I still find it hard to believe ‘my story’ was my life; it feels too raw. It happened over a period of years, but those years could have rolled into yesterday, that is how raw it feels.

Learning how to handle our feelings is challenging. Our reactions may often depend on the situation and how we feel about those involved. As a child, I would angrily explode by negatively expressing my …

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22 Mar, 2019

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