Self-development is something we’re probably aware of and something we probably need to start doing. Not everyone will work on self-development.

With self-development comes emotional and spiritual growth. It has everything to do with our core values, beliefs and lifestyle. If we persevere for long enough, personal growth can lead to new opportunities …

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31 Mar, 2019

Understanding motives

When you learn to look into another person’s soul and you learn more about them, it becomes easier to understand why they would choose to do something. But being able to forgive someone for something they’ve done may not apply in all cases, it depends on the deed.

I have come to understand that what happened to me wasn’t personal. Although conscious decisions were taken for me not to know about my disability, I understand the reasoning. When we can understand …

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30 Mar, 2019

Looking at the positives

Some of us will see the negatives before we see the positives, others will simply see life negatively and continue to see life negatively.

But it is often difficult for us to see or understand why our lives map out in a certain way, or the purpose of our experiences. Whatever happens, there is no point in looking back and wishing our lives were …

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29 Mar, 2019

Unintentioned decisions

When you’re able to look deep into another person’s personality and you come to understand his or her motives and intentions, it’s easy to then understand why their decision was the decision they took, although that’s not true in every case.

I know what happened to me wasn’t personal. Although conscious decisions were taken to ignore my disability, it was never intentioned. When I peel back all the layers, I can see the reasoning behind …

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27 Mar, 2019

Ignoring issues

I could have ignored my biggest issue, not knowing what my disability was. I could have told myself ignorance is bliss, I’m probably better off not knowing, the truth will only hurt but that’s far from what the truth does.

We all have issues, but we must have control and change our attitude to our reasons for ignoring our issues. Where we’re fearful of change, we must work on our fear, where we have uncertainty we must …

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23 Mar, 2019

Repressed emotions

When I think about my experiences, I still find it hard to believe ‘my story’ was my life; it feels too raw. It happened over a period of years, but those years could have rolled into yesterday, that is how raw it feels.

Learning how to handle our feelings is challenging. Our reactions may often depend on the situation and how we feel about those involved. As a child, I would angrily explode by negatively expressing my outward …

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22 Mar, 2019