It would be lovely to think people only want to bring out the best in us, but there are those who will continually insist on bringing out the worst in us, by constantly finding fault. I think that when that happens it says a lot about them and very little about us.
Fault is taken from the ego that is responsible for the misrepresentation on how we see and behave towards other people. When we learn to take our ego out of any equation, we become selfless. When we become selfless we begin to see and recognise some of our own faults, instead of finding fault with others.
Of course, taking our ego out of the equation doesn’t mean others will be completely faultless, I don’t believe we’re ever completely faultless, but it does mean we won’t find fault with others through the ego.