Boundaries are taught by parents to their children from a very early age and are usually in place to protect them and other children they come into contact with.
Generally, there are children who are lovely natured and probably won’t be affected by having no boundaries, but the more wilful and determined child will usually stop at nothing without any boundaries in place. That child would be a nightmare to manage, let alone live with.
But boundaries aren’t just for children they serve adults too and are crucial if we are to build and implement healthy relationships. Adults without boundaries may be objectionable, and may also lack communication skills, because they’ve never learned how or what makes good communication. They may also act independently when making decisions without any regard for their partners.
Boundaries are there to help us adjust and live within our constraints. They also help us communicate safely and effectively without us overstepping the mark. What one partner who has grown up with boundaries thinks is appropriate, their spouse or partner without boundaries may find totally inappropriate.
It is the reason why boundaries are so important and why they must be maintained. All differences must be respected.