Boundaries are a dividing line between what we can and can’t do. They are what parents put in place to protect their children and other children they come into contact with.
Boundaries are taught by parents to their children from a very early age. All children need boundaries to keep them safe and secure, but some will push against their parents’ boundaries, whereas other won’t.
But boundaries aren’t just for children, they serve adults too and are crucial if we are to build and implement healthy relationships. Adults without boundaries may be objectionable, and may also lack communication skills, because they’ve never learned how or what makes good communication.
They may also act independently when making decisions without any regard for others. What one person who has grown up with boundaries thinks is appropriate, a person without boundaries may find totally inappropriate and vice versa. All differences must be respected.
Healthy boundaries are there to help us take care of ourselves emotionally and physically. They help us communicate safely and effectively without us overstepping the mark. It is the reason why boundaries are so important and why they should always be maintained.