Finding a balance

How many of us may start off with good intentions without turning what we do into an obsession?

For example those with a sweet tooth who may deprive themselves of having one piece of chocolate because they don’t trust themselves not to eat the whole bar. Obsessions may be applied to most scenarios.

It is important to find a balance between depriving ourselves and working something to excess. Everything that is done in excess is unhealthy for us emotionally, physically and psychologically.

Another example is the gym. It is important to let muscles rest between gym sessions. Too many sessions in the gym may lead to tendon and muscle damage. Excessive exercise may lead to Osteoporosis. It may also weaken the immune system, because we’re not allowing the body to rest.

Although we don’t always class things we do as addictive, without realising, those things can and do become addictive. Perhaps this is something we must think about.

We can enjoy something without it turning into an obsession. The key to everything is moderation.

14 Jun, 2012

8 thoughts on “Finding a balance

  1. I remember when I was writing my book, or now when I’m working on articles I become obsessive about the work in hand and throw myself into the task at hand. I feel guilty when I don’t work, like I am neglecting my duties.

    Balance is the key. You have to stop and take a breath sometimes to realise how you are acting is unhealthy.

    1. Thanks for posting Stuart. I think you’re right.

      It’s usually only when we manage to slow down or stop that we realise how unhealthy our lives have become, but realistically speaking how many of us will actually do that in our lives?

      I don’t believe we always recognise those character traits in ourselves.

  2. Too much of a good thing can hurt you but not enough is just as bad, like exercise.

    I definitely don’t get enough and pay for it. I need to exercise everyday for many of my health problems and of course I don’t do it.

    I’m usually too tired is my excuse, but I would feel more energy if I could get myself in some sort of routine of exercise of some kind.

    1. I think you’re right Lisa. No exercise is as bad as too much exercise, but in different ways.

      I think that when we’re more settled in our lives and have less stress, we do tend to think more about these things. I am sure at some point the same will happen for you.

      As with everything, we need to strike a balance.

  3. In my life it has been very difficult to find any kind of a balance. Most of the time it has either been total chaos or mind numbing boredom.

    I’m trying to work on finding the difference so that my life will be a lot more tolerable. I’m hoping that things will improve in the future.

  4. I remember when I was younger I became obsessed with exercising and upset my hip flexor. That hurt; so I had to do a lot of stretching and I gave up karate (which was also stressing my knee).

    Everything in moderation, except for jewelery (you can never have too much) LOL!

    1. Nice to have you back on site.

      I agree with you that moderation is the key. Unfortunately as you proven Maria when we do too much exercise, it’s easy to get injured and that sets us back and stops us from exercising in the first place.

      If we took more time to moderate our exercise routine in the first place, we wouldn’t have to take time off to recuperate!

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