I used to know someone who instead of trying to fix his problems, would spend his time constantly moaning about them. Personally, I can’t see the attraction.
I have never come to understand why some people would choose to spend so much time and energy moaning, when they could fix the same problem in half the time. Am I missing something, but what’s the point?
If we spent less time moaning and more time working out whether what we’re moaning about can be fixed, we would have less stress to deal with. If we know something isn’t working or hasn’t worked, then we need to find something that will. It doesn’t mean we’ve failed, it means we must find a way that works better for us.
How we handle our problems is very much key. I tend to stand back, so that I’m looking at my problems from the outside in. That way I get to see the bigger picture. If you equate your problems to falling off a bike, you fall off, you get back up and try again. Whatever happens, you don’t give up.