I used to know someone who instead of trying to fix his problems, would constantly moan about them. Personally, I can’t see the attraction.
If we were to spend less time moaning about our problems and more time on fixing our problems, we would have less stress to deal with. If we know something isn’t working or hasn’t worked, then we should find something that will. It doesn’t mean we’ve failed, it means we should find a way that works better for us.
How we handle our problems is very much key. I stand back, so that I’m looking at my problems from the outside in. That way I get to see the bigger picture. If you equate your problems to falling off a bike, you fall off, you get back up and try again. Whatever happens, you don’t give up.