I’m not sure how long I was in counselling, when something just wasn’t working for me. The tools I needed to help me deal with my issues just weren’t happening.
The counsellor had something to do with it, but it was in that moment that I came to realise it was up to me to put my life right, only I could help myself.
To a certain extent, no matter how good or how helpful they are, they cannot put something right for someone else; we must do that for ourselves. We have to fix ourselves, others cannot save or change another person. We see what we see, we have to be able to see these things for ourselves.
We can inspire others with our thoughts and even our own choices in the hope that what we say and what we see, has an impact on the way they see their own lives.