Happy people will have periods of low moods, disappointments and problems in the same way people who have unhappy dispositions do. The only difference is that happy people will adapt more easily and therefore their disappointments and low moods will be dealt with more swiftly.
Happy people have a relaxed and calm demeanour about them, regardless of what they deal with. They are generally more content in themselves and know to take the rough with the smooth. They’re ready for what comes their way.
They are aware of how they feel at any given point. They accept the inevitable and usually take things in their stride. They tend not to panic and know that as their low moods come, they will go. They seem to be more accepting of their feelings and aren’t particularly fazed by what they deal with. They get on with putting their world right.
Ever since I was a little girl, I have always had things to deal with. My beliefs and experiences help shape my ability to stay focused and calm and by dealing with and bringing closure on many of my issues. My experiences in turn have shaped my personality and my ability to deal with my issues, with some ease.
I think it important not to fight our feelings and accept that we have them. Try to be a little more at ease with those feelings, they’re there for a reason. Sometimes it’s important to just go with the flow; because that helps us become more relaxed and calm.