“I think we can’t go around measuring our goodness by what we don’t do… by what we deny ourselves … what we resist and who we exclude.
I think we have to measure goodness by what we embrace … what we create and who we include.” – Chocolat
I love this quote from the film ‘Chocolat.’ It resonates with how I live. Humility is something we can all have, but not all of us will. Life is measured by it, how we behave, whom we include and how we choose to relate to other people.
Ever since I was a small child, I never felt the need to prove myself to anyone. I was never full of my own self-importance. I was respectful and grateful.
Someone with humility, instead of being self-opinionated and pompous, will go about their life in an understated fashion. Although experiences help us mature and come to terms with many aspects of our lives, being humble allows us to deal with our issues, without a fuss and without other people having to know.
We come to accept praise we’re given gracefully without others needing to know we have been praised. Humility makes us courteous as we look to learn, listening to others and in doing so, placing others before ourselves. We would never neglect ourselves, but we’re also happy to think about other people who may need our help.
Humility means that everything we do comes from a gentle, more considerate and conciliatory place. We live life at a much slower pace and choose a life that’s more purposeful. Even with differences in the world, a person with humility will unconsciously choose not to see any differences; or will embrace those differences instead of making a difference.
Unfortunately, even if we start off being humble, in a society that encourages us to be less individual and more inclusive it can be hard to stay humble, but we must. Humility will always concur with the universe and is a good way to live.