I am sure we’ve all been indecisive at some point in our lives, but what happens if we’re indecisive all the time? I know one or two people who struggle with decision bigger, but not being able to make any decisions can infringe on other parts of our lives. It’s a self confidence thing.
We must have faith in our own ability. Faith to follow our own intuition around decisions, rather than be led by other people’s decisions; faith to believe that the decisions we make are usually the choice and the road we’re supposed to take. There can never be a wrong choice, because as soon as we decide on our choice, it becomes the right choice for us.
So how do we go about becoming decisive? I would say we need to generate more self-confidence. We need to believe in our own abilities instead of doubting ourselves all the time. We also need to follow our instincts and blow caution to the wind and just go for a decision, instead of pondering over a decision, then failing to follow it through.
I believe it’s also important to ignore what others think of your decisions; your decisions are for you to make no one else. Just because we make a decision that doesn’t accord with another person’s decision, doesn’t mean our decision is wrong.
It could be that our decision is wrong for someone else, but is right for us. It’s our life; we must make and stand by our own decisions.