I am sure we’ve all been indecisive at some point. I know one or two people who struggle with making decisions, but not being able to make any decision at all, can impact our lives.
It’s all to do with self-confidence. We must have faith in ourselves and our abilities. Faith to trust our own thought process, rather than be led by other people, faith to believe that the decisions we make are right for us.
There is no wrong decision, because as soon as we decide, it becomes the right decision. We need to stop doubting ourselves, we need to bring about more self-confidence. We must learn to follow our gut instinct, then any decisions we make we will follow through.
Also, it is important we ignore other people’s thoughts on our decisions, unless we know we have their support. Depending on another person’s motive, it’s easy for others to put us off making our own decisions.
Just because we make a decision that doesn’t accord with another person’s, doesn’t mean our decision is wrong. It could be that our decision is wrong for someone else, but it’s the right one for us.
Whatever happens, it’s our life for us to make our own decisions. For those of us who are indecisive, we must try to at least stop being indecisive and instead make and stand by our own decisions.