I wasn’t an easy child, suffice to say I was difficult, but perhaps others needed to look at why I struggled, we’re not born with difficult character traits.
To be difficult for difficult sake isn’t right, but being difficult because you’re trying to get to grips with something you deal with, with no emotional or mental support, is a whole different ball game. People shouldn’t just assume people are difficult, for difficult sake, then write them off.
We all have difficulties that we deal with, but when others get to look at the bigger picture, they get to see the issues that have manifested themselves in years of behaviour traits. There are reasons behind people’s difficult character traits. We’re not born difficult. It’s important for others to understand.
On the part of the person who is being difficult, perhaps they should also take a closer look at themselves and see how they can work to change some of those difficult traits. It would be easier to do that, rather than others write them off.
It is easy for people to turn a blind eye and accept that someone is difficult, but perhaps instead of condemnation, what those people need is help.