It may be hard to understand why family may sometimes find it necessary to meddle or interfere in each other’s lives? Where family care, they may begin to overstep the mark and boundaries and that is when meddling can happen.
Those who meddle may have a strong emotional reaction to want to help someone with their life, or their circumstances, but that should be the time to take a step back.
It’s fine if the other person is asking for advice, but not fine if that person doesn’t want advice, but it’s given anyway. It is always important to stand back and take another person’s lead.