The person I was at the age of 25 is not the same person I am today. Most of us may breeze through life following the same patterns and might be making the same mistakes and won’t change a thing. Those people may not see it’s them who need to change, but without change we can never grow emotionally.
The thing about change is that to benefit from it we need to put in the time and effort. It isn’t always easy to know and understand what changes we need to make. Others may often see where we need to change, better than we can see for ourselves. We may not always see repeated habits as a need for change, but any habit that becomes repetitive is a good reason to change.
Anything we may repeat shows a lack of imagination, a lack of thought, a lack of consideration, a lack growth, particularly towards those on the receiving end. And although change is difficult, it does get easier with time. We need to give change time. Through a change in perceptions, we get to work on new strategies that helps incorporate change.
The right changes can make our life more rewarding and less stressful. Without change, our behaviour is more likely to become stereotyped, predictable and annoying to other people. Change that is positive can be the key for peace, tranquillity and harmony.