Normalising Disability

We need to normalise disability. I have cerebral palsy and I am not in a wheelchair. It’s common for people to associate cerebral palsy with a wheelchair. As a child, I associated cerebral palsy with it, long before I was diagnosed with it.

Also, as a small child I remember seeing people with disabilities and thinking I didn’t know how to approach them. But anyone who deals with a disability, will tell you they want to be spoken to normally and treated like everyone else.

When it comes to disability, there are different ways an individual can be affected, depending on their particular brain damage and differing degrees of severity. It is important we come to understand disability in its wider context, and not simply assume, or think one way.

It is important to people like myself who deal with a disability, to know other people see me as normal. People need to know we are normal, like everyone, we also have needs, we may just present differently and that is to be expected. But it is because we present differently that we get stared at from time to time, or have comments made about us.

When it comes to disability, it’s easy to assume. People may sometimes assume before they’ve even spoken to us that we are automatically intellectually impaired and that’s not true. We are mentally aware of what is going on around us.

Physically we may struggle to get ourselves around, but we are completely aware of what we see, hear and think. It is exactly why normalising disability is important and why we should be treated like everyone else and with respect.


21 May, 2021

2 thoughts on “Normalising Disability

  1. Normalising disability starts with including it and introducing inclusion at an early age. It helps everyone better understand and reduce discrimination.

    We are all different as your story shows and we all deserve to be able to live our lives without stigma.

    1. Thank you. Yes, it does, but it’s not what we have. Anyone with a disability will tell you the same thing, but until people learn to accept and support those of us who deal with a disability unconditionally, stigmas will continue.

      Whilst stigmas continue to be associated with a disability, it is mainly associated with the mental and emotional side of what we deal with.

      Whilst it may not happen all the time, it is never far away.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Pre-order my new book

Many thanks
Ilana x