It’s a shame scenarios don’t come in one size fits all. The picture that presents itself to one person, doesn’t present itself in the same way to another.
Of course, I understand, particularly as we perceive things differently, but how much easier would our lives would be if we were all looking at the same picture and then could agree on the same things. In reality, I am sure that’s what many of us would like, but that’s not what many of us get.
It’s the different pictures that seem to have an impact on us individually and with each other, when we can’t seem to agree or find a way forward on those disagreements.