Opinions formed. For some this may be their biggest bugbear. Whether it be extended family, family, acquaintances, people we’re not altogether familiar with but who know us whilst growing up, all of whom seem to have preconceived ideas about us, opinions formed, comparisons made without adequate evidence.
I’m not sure why people often feel the need to live with or comment about other people, when they don’t really know. For some of us it’s part of the family scenario. I have learned not to attach too much importance to what people think. It would be like having a full time person critique you, without really knowing you.
In a way it’s become part of people’s mind-set in general. We seem more interested and more preoccupied with other people’s lives than we are with our own. We’re too quick to pass judgment or comment on others, instead of working on ourselves.