There are those who genuinely want to help, those who want to help but don’t know how to help and those who don’t want to know what it is we’re dealing with and therefore won’t go out of their way to help.
On our part, it’s the not knowing, living in the dark with little to no understanding of our issue that makes what we feel and what we think worse. We can always work through things when we have an understanding on how or why something happens the way it does.
Other people’s ignorance can’t help us learn to live with and accept what we deal with if we are truly struggling. Sometimes it takes another person’s eyes to show us a way forward, a resolve.