Some of us will go through life never admitting or recognising we’re wrong or admit our faults; but would still be quick off the mark when it came to recognising other people’s faults. Do we even recognise our faults?
There’s something about the human condition that makes us hesitant to admit we’re at fault. Even when it becomes obvious to everyone else, we’re still not prepared to admit we screwed up, but if we were to address our issues, our behaviour would change.
I didn’t understand or recognise my own behaviour traits, which presented through my frustrations of living with something I knew nothing about; unconsciously I didn’t seem to be able to stop myself. When we come to understand and recognise our faults, we’re more likely to want to change our presenting behaviour.
In my own case it was difficult to do, because the underlying physical and emotional issues were never addressed. That wasn’t down to me.