My thoughts bring me on to a different path today, where I can see the bigger picture of my life, situations and issues that I’ve had to deal with.
I know which situations I can change; and which issues I need to change, but I also know that to change or walk away from a situation may bring with it more unease from those who aren’t accepting of my decisions. It’s not always easy to bring ourselves out of circumstances to a place that we know will bring us peace.
In an ideal world yes, but it’s not how life goes, well it’s not how my life goes. But I believe that if we’re able to speak out and things still don’t work out, then it’s right to call time. I also believe that we’re less likely to live with regret if we say something, but I appreciate that some circumstances are difficult, particularly for those of us who live with emotional or physical abuse.
Any situation that doesn’t comply with how we want to live needs to change, but first we must see the need and want to change. Where we live with stress or abuse, we must be strong enough to deal with that and then think about change.
*If anyone deals with emotional or physical abuse it’s important to ask for help. *