Unfortunately, the way we come to experience the world around us is as a reflection of the world within us. If our thoughts and energy don’t support our life, then our life will not be supported and must find a way to learn to do it for ourselves.
I have always likened my lack of emotional support to living in a vacuum, emotionally being cut off from an environment that I at least managed to function in. Looking back, I didn’t crave support, I learned to do without.
It would have been nice of course, but I simply chose not to dwell on what I didn’t have. The sad reality for us is that at some point or another, it will always be up to us to support ourselves emotionally, regardless of the support we get back.