Take out the worry

We can never have peace of mind when we’re more concerned with what other people think. When we continuously worry and lose sight of what’s important, we can also never have peace of mind.

When we can’t focus on what’s ahead, when we have little self-confidence, we’ll also struggle. However, when we begin to understand the bigger picture and that it really doesn’t matter what other people think, when we begin to stop worrying, we’ll begin to have peace of mind.

And although there will never be a time where we’re free of conflict, when we come to cope we shall have peace of mind.

29 Jun, 2013

2 thoughts on “Take out the worry

  1. I’ve learned over the years that it really doesn’t matter what others think. My mom used to drill it in my head! She’d say,’quit worrying about what others think.’ Why worry? Others are going to think what they want and you can’t change that. Nothing you say or do will change their minds.

    I still worry sometimes though and it’s mostly about my family’s health and happiness. I used to be a really bad perfectionist but I’ve also changed that to a certain extent where it’s not so bad.

    I still have my quirks but I’m happier. Things will never settle down totally for us, but we can handle it better now.

    1. You’re absolutely right Lisa in what you say. Very wise words from your mom.

      We all have our quirks of course, they’re part of all of us; but I am genuinely pleased that you’re happier now and that you’re handling what you deal with better.

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