It’s easy to feel that we know someone well, but the little bits that make up some of the bigger bits we know about them, isn’t the same as knowing or having a soul connection. We can know someone for twenty years and still not know anything about that person, or we can know someone for a year and know everything we need to know.
In society it’s easy to scratch at the surface as far as relationships or friendships are concerned, which is why it is even more important for us to be aware of the level of connection and the bond we have. If we get to know the people in our lives and they’re right for us, we will value those friendships more deeply and may avoid problems such as loneliness.
We will also go on to recognise our own unique self-worth, which will help us go on to form better relationships. It has become easier to meet and interact with new people through social media, but because we haven’t always grown up with the people we meet on line, we seem to connect with them differently, but not always in a good way.
What I know is that we need to put time, effort and compassion into all our relationships if they’re going to work, if we are going to continue to form deep, stronger and more meaningful relationships.