We will always fail to please others when we fail to please ourselves, we will always fail to trust others when we fail to trust ourselves and we will always fail to be honest with others when we’re not honest with ourselves. We will also always fail to communicate with others when we fail to understand ourselves.
In order to change things, we must get to know everything about us, to find out what makes us who we are. To find out what we like and dislike, find out what makes us happy and what makes us sad. Understand the things that make us angry and find out what makes us tolerant, everything.
It’s important we find out everything there is to know about us, because it stands to reason that if we learn how to be these things to ourselves, we will be these things to other people.