The most common problems in a relationship is being emotionally wounded by those who hurt us by their comments that may sometimes seem intentional.
Some relationships, when complacency sets in, may harbour unintentional hurt, such as bringing up issues from the past that aren’t relevant to what’s going on.
Emotional baggage may usually be the reason why we may sometimes unintentionally hurt someone. However, if we make ourselves consciously aware of issues in our past, we can give ourselves the opportunity to work through and change how we relate to those we have in our lives.
Changing our attitude, if we are presented with these kind of problems, should allow us to deal with people and our issues better, so that none of what is said becomes intentional.