When you look deep into another person’s soul, and you come to understand his or her motives and intentions, it is easy to understand why they took the decision they took.
When I peel back the layers, I can see and understand the reasoning behind what happened to me more clearly. When we can reason, it makes our experiences that little bit easier. It doesn’t take away the responsibility from those responsible, but it does give us clarity where we might not have clarity.
What happened to me, eventually changed the course of my life and direction and although I was initially unconsciously determined not to give up, I still had to reconcile that I might never know about my disability.
That part wasn’t easy and there is no excuse for what happened. As soon as we make someone’s actions an excuse, we accept abuse as part of our lives. Abuse must be stamped out.
It’s often difficult to understand, but through it all, we must still try to understand and reconcile other people’s motives.