When you’re able to look deep into another person’s personality and you come to understand his or her motives and intentions, it’s easy to then understand why their decision was the decision they took, although that’s not true in every case.
I know what happened to me wasn’t personal. Although conscious decisions were taken to ignore my disability, it was never intentioned. When I peel back all the layers, I can see the reasoning behind what happened to me more clearly. When we can reason, it makes things that little bit easier.
It doesn’t take away what’s happened or the responsibility from those responsible, but it does give clarity where there would be no clarity. What happened to me, eventually changed the course of my life and direction and although I was determined not to give up, I still felt I had no choice but to reconcile that I might never know about my disability.
That wasn’t easy and there is no excuse for what happened to me. As soon as we make someone’s actions an excuse, we accept abuse as part of our lives and that can never be allowed to happen. Abuse must be stamped out.
It is often difficult to understand why we have the life we have, but through that we must still try to understand and reconcile other people’s motives.