Unfortunately, if others don’t see an issue in their actions, they will never change. All we can do is change the way we see their actions. Actions will always be actions, until we recognise we need to change.
For as many years as I spent in counselling trying to sort out my childhood issues, brought about growing up, I spent as many years again waiting for them to understand their actions were affecting me, hoping they would change, but it was me who wasn’t getting it.
What we don’t always get, is that although others should change their actions, particularly if what they’re doing is affecting us, they aren’t always going to change and therefore it is us that needs to change.