Unfortunately, if others don’t see an issue in their actions, they will never change. All we can do is change the way we see their actions. Their actions will always be their actions, without them recognising their need to change.
For as many years as I spent in counselling trying to sort out my childhood issues, brought about by family’s actions, I spent just as many years waiting for them to see how their actions were affecting me, in the hope they would change. I wasn’t getting it.
What we don’t always get, is that although others should change their actions, particularly if what they’re doing is affecting us, they aren’t always going to change and therefore it is us that need to change.