We see what we want to see, because we’re not in touch with reality, we are in touch with reality but fail to see a true reality of our circumstances, or we have no clear understanding of how to see what we need to see.
Seeing what we want to see means we’ll always fail to see what we need to see. Seeing what we need to see will help us bring about the right outcome, but first we need to think about and understand everything about our circumstances, in the way it happens.
From my own experiences when we see and understand our circumstances, we give ourselves more control over our decisions, in a way that was intended. In the long term not seeing what we need to see will keep us stuck, or will leave us living in denial.
We stay stuck because we’re looking at a totally different reality than the reality we’re supposed to be seeing.