We see what we want to see, either because we’re not in touch with reality, we fail to see a true reality of our circumstances on how we can change things, or we have no clear understanding of how to see what we need to see.
Sadly, seeing what we want to see, means we’ll always fail to see what we need to see. Seeing what we need to see will mostly help us bring about the right outcome to our circumstances, but to make sure, we first need to think about and understand everything there is to know about our circumstances in the way it happens.
From my own life and experiences when we see and understand our circumstances, we give ourselves more control over our decisions so that we can move forward with our lives, in a way that was intended. In the long term not seeing what we need to see will keep us stuck, or have us living in denial.
So many of us stay stuck because we’re looking at a totally different reality than the reality we’re supposed to be seeing.