It starts with our parents. It’s easy to blame them for the way we turn out and even with merit, justification and true, I’m not sure in reality what good it does.
I was a victim and whilst some of us will blame and continue to blame our parents for us being victims and how we turn out, some of our parents will already be victims themselves and the cycle continues. Some of us will have been or will continue to be victims. Some of us may not even know that we are.
It doesn’t make any of what happens right, but it is up to us to change things. Does anyone ever come through their childhood completely unscathed? From my own personal journey, I personally don’t think we do.