I believe things happen for a reason that there is something of value that comes out of every situation as long as we look for the understanding and the lessons. We always have valuable lessons to learn.
Sometimes opportunities come out of difficult situations. When I can equate and understand why things happen, I find it easier to change my perceptions and attitude. It’s at that point that I am ready to move on with my life.
Knowing the reason why something happens also saves us from feeling we’re to blame. Even if something happens and we’re in the wrong place at the wrong time that’s still meant for us. There will always be a reason, even if the reason wasn’t what we were expecting, or isn’t the outcome we want, or one that we understand.
If someone wrongs us, the universal law should help. That we are all accountable for our actions, no one is free of the karmic debt. I have held on to those beliefs for as long as I can remember.
As I begin to question the bigger picture on some of my own issues, I find myself having to go back to find the understanding. The CP Diary helps with that.
When something bad happens, it doesn’t stop me from believing there is a reason why. It is part of my belief system, regardless of whether the scenario is good or bad.