Just a thought:
Extended families can be a source of happiness, but can also be a source of unhappiness. Taking on their worries can cause a lot of distress for both you and your own family. Don’t let their problems; anxieties or worries spoil your own outlook. It’s okay to be at arm’s length to support them, but be in control of your own thoughts and focus on what’s important for you. Don’t let them interfere with your own thoughts and journey. Family will always have opinions, but your opinions must be yours.