Just a thought:
Extended family can be a source of happiness, but can also be a source of stress. It is okay to be at arm’s length to support them, but be in control of your own thoughts and focus on what you think is important. It is important to not let family interfere with our own journey.
Family will always have opinions, but your opinions are what matter. We have to be able to fit comfortably into our life, when we’re not able to do that because we’re living another person’s life, we will always have an element of struggle.