We must again look and think outside the box, instead of apportioning blame, if we are to meet with success in our lives. A culture of blame, characterised by an unwillingness to accept responsibility for mistakes, individually or through institutions.
No matter what our issues throw up or how we got to our issues, we’ve settled into a blame culture, where everyone else is to blame, and although that’s not true, we’re happy to make it appear as if it is. Although we may not initially be to blame, we are to blame if we continue to blame others and don’t start to take responsibility for ourselves.
Regardless of our circumstances or issues, it is important through society we all work together to build a more functional system with a fair and open culture of accountability. Blame is subjective. It is based on personal opinions. But a personal opinion is often flawed, because it is based on our personal thinking and not the universal thinking.
Again, it has also got something to do with the history, our relationship with that person. We must be objective, rather than subjective. We must also be open-minded. It is easier to blame, than it is to work through our own demons, insecurities and understand that we may to be blame.
We must think about and take responsibility for our decisions and what we continue to bring to our relationships. Not everything is clear, not everything is black and white.