There is no doubt that how we get to our struggles can stay with us. Anything that we get to deal with, can put a different slant on how we feel, whether it comes from a relationship with our parents, siblings and/or extended family.
Whilst others may have an opinion, they’re not the one with a life lived that should have been lived differently and if they were made to live a different life, like us, that would be for them to work through and reconcile.
As individuals, we have choices, it is up to us to think about and work through our challenges. Sadly, any challenges we have to deal with, will always make us think and feel differently about our relationships and how we got to that place.
If those challenges are allowed to continue, they can leave us irritated at the injustice, with those challenges yet for us to overcome.