Not all of us will make the connections that the motives behind our deeds will have an impact on our future success. We may also not understand that the universe is well aware of our motivates, and that motives play a big part in how well our lives will turn out.
We cannot be one way to fit into our lives with ulterior motives and still expect our lives to work out. Motives must be honourable, we must want to be and give of our best, regardless of our past experiences.
People want to see others care about them not just for what they can offer, but genuinely because they are unconditionally wanted and loved. There is too much hurt out there, because we’re acting selfishly, concerned about what will physically and emotionally profit us.
We may not always consider our actions and may act on impulse. We know what we know, we just don’t stop to think about the consequences. We don’t stop to think about others and what they want, we only think about ourselves.
And although we may consciously continue to ignore our unconscious thoughts through our experiences, the universe isn’t ignoring it, neither must we. Shared history is no reason for us to act out with the wrong motives.
No matter the experience, or the past, the right motives will shape the way our lives work out. We must all want to do better.