It would be so easy for us to hold a grudge because of everything we deal with, but what’s the point? Unfortunately, when we hold a grudge, we unconsciously hope the pain we feel is felt by the person we have a grudge against. It’s the nature of what a grudge is.
The irony is that holding a grudge doesn’t make us feel any better about ourselves, neither does a grudge make our circumstances any better. Holding a grudge doesn’t help us change anything.
All a grudge does is make us stay bitter.