The human condition is inevitably tragic and I say that with the best of intentions. We’ve come to live in a world where people have their own agendas. This continues to be exemplified by the political events in the UK and those that have emerged throughout the US election.
Those events have shown how prevalent hidden agendas really are and the thought process behind some of the decisions that were made and that continue to be made, which weren’t made public. It is particularly sad when we keep thoughts to ourselves in order to feather our own nests and is the reason why we have already chosen not to disclose them.
For the rest of us it is feasibly possible that those with an agenda genuinely don’t want to concern us, particularly if it’s something they’re struggling to deal with, or it could be what they are feeding us is what they want us to hear and not what we need to know.
It’s vital that what people see is what they get. Being open, transparent and honest not only works better with everyone, but works better with the universe and is the way the universe expects us to go. We will and can never expect to succeed when we go against that which is expected of us.
For all of us how we communicate, what we disclose is the difference between winning, failing and falling out, or others simply walking away. What others see is what they should get, not what we give them. Life shouldn’t be about agendas and yet we insist on making our lives like that and expecting others to fall into line.
Personally, I have never chosen to buy into that kind of lifestyle. With me what you see is what you get. Perhaps it’s the honesty that people find difficult that drives them into a hidden agenda scenario. Either way it’s wrong.
Life itself should be about communication, being upfront and us working through things, so that it brings people together, not split them up.