The sad reality is that we allow our subconscious to dictate how we live in the present and that can never help us initiate change.
We have to be the ones who initiate and want change. Change can only happen when we’re willing to embrace the idea of change. We can talk about change and most of us do, but unless we’re prepared to deal with and work through our issues stored in our subconscious, how we think will never change and therefore change can never happen.
Once we’re through the other end of change, it is possible to then inspire others to change, but unless they’re ready for change, themselves, there’s nothing we can do to make them change. Readiness for change always comes, at a time when we’re ready to deal with the issues that once forced us to hold back.
Our readiness is something we must continually work on, triggered by notable experiences that we are ready to address. I was tired of feeling and carrying guilt that others put on me that didn’t belong to me. I was also tired of being made to carry other people’s beliefs that weren’t my own and those were holding me back.
It’s living the life we want to live through change. It’s also wanting to make connections through a deeper sense of purpose.