Learning to navigate life

What you have or see in your life, is someone else wishing was their life. What we have we don’t care for and what we don’t have, we want.

We stop caring because we don’t care about ourselves. When we stop caring, we mustn’t force it, but must ask ourselves and try to understand why. We ignore the very things that will help us change how we see ourselves and others.

It is important we look at our lives and ask ourselves questions about our lives. We must ask the questions that will give us the answers, but unless we have understanding, we will never find the solutions. Our inabilities to function, are often bundled through emotional reasons and it is our job to find out why.

The solution is for us to fix the initial problem, which may be a broken spirit. When we fix ourselves, our emotions will fix. But first we must learn to change our perceptions and our approach.

Yes, we can learn to navigate life, but first we must take control where we didn’t have control, we must also choose to spend time with people who elevate us, rather than choose to bring us down and deal with the issues that weigh you down.


15 Apr, 2018

4 thoughts on “Learning to navigate life

  1. No one ever really showed me how to properly navigate my life, other than having a basic concept of the difference between right and wrong.

    This is the dilemma I face now at 49, as to how I want to live my own life and enjoy it, rather than feel like I’m just suffering through life and death would be a welcome relief at the end.

    My parents never seemed to enjoy much of anything outside of sex, so it’s no wonder my siblings and I never really enjoyed living.

    It is actually very difficult to imagine, let alone comprehend, what living my own life would be like; since it isn’t something I haven’t ever really done before.

    I know there is a lot more to life than just surviving and/or existing, which I would like to be able to enjoy while I’m still able to.

    1. Thanks Randy. Yes, I didn’t get much further than you in terms of navigating my life. My life was mapped out from the minute I was born.

      It would have been great for us both to have had the opportunity and the help to be able to know how to play things and move forward, but it’s more rewarding us being able to do it ourselves.

      I tend to use my intuition to navigate my life and that works for me. But it’s important for us to have people in our lives who don’t control us.

    1. Hi Anshika and welcome to the site. You’re absolutely right. We need to trust our gut and listen.

      It not only communicates with us, but it’s a message from the universe that what we’re thinking, or what we are intending to do is right.

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