What you have or see in your life, is someone else wishing was their life and perhaps that’s the point. What we have we don’t care for and what we don’t have, we want.
We stop caring because we don’t care about ourselves. When we stop caring, we mustn’t force it, but must ask ourselves and try to understand why. Perhaps that’s where we’re going wrong. We ignore the very things that will help us change how we see ourselves and others.
It’s important we look at our lives in its entirety. If we don’t love our life then we must ask ourselves why? If we’re lonely, we must ask ourselves why? We must ask the questions that will give us the answers, but unless we have understanding behind the things we don’t care about, we will never find solutions. Our inabilities to function, are often bundled through emotional reasons and it’s our job to find out why.
I believe that the solution is to fix the initial problem, which is often a broken spirit. As my life has shown with work on ourselves, we can begin to emotionally fix ourselves so that we become whole and motivated again. When we fix ourselves, our emotions will fix. But first we must learn to change our perceptions and our approach.
So that we become happy where we weren’t and take control where we once didn’t have control, choose to spend time with people who elevate you, rather than choose to bring you down and instead deal with the issues that weigh you down.