The emotional solitude path stops us from communicating, being part of something that has the potential to be good.
Life is what we choose. When we fail to see what’s in front of us and continue to dwell on how we would like things to be, the picture we paint in our heads will be different to what we’re being presented with.
We must come to accept and embrace our lives in the present. What we contribute to any relationship is what we will get back and that means we’re to blame.
We think the grass is greener that our lives will be better elsewhere that what we’ve got isn’t what we want. But if we ever chose another path, we’d find the grass was just the same. We would still have things to deal with. Life isn’t that simple.
The reality is that we’re where we’re supposed to be. Life is what and how we choose it to be. It is our life: it is important we don’t make our lives about everyone else.