The conclusion I came to a long time ago is, “we don’t have to be fixed to be healed.” We must be flexible enough to bend to what life throws at us, not the other way around. Having a certain belief doesn’t take away pain, stress or illness we may have to deal with in the future, but it allows us to understand.
Having to cope with an illness, challenge or a disability doesn’t mean we’re broken or damaged. It’s just something we’re born with. We’re human having a human experience and that means we’ll always incorporate certain challenges along the way that we will have to deal with, to try to overcome. Being fixed isn’t about acquiring perfection.
We can heal without being fixed. Being healed is having the ability and willingness to accept unconditionally whatever life throws at us. It’s all to do with our mind-set and how we see ourselves. If we heal emotionally, there will be nothing for us to physically fix.